KD + FB = BFF

In honor of complete transparency, I like LOVE Facebook. I really do! I enjoy seeing what other friends are up to, I enjoy connecting with people I haven't spoken to in months. Old high school friends, extended family members I haven't touched base with in years, we all have those people in our lives.

Since jumping into the network marketing career path, Facebook has become my 'job'. I reach out to my customers this way, I spend time making connections and finding new clients and it's been wonderfully successful for me in that way - but like most things in life, there's a catch.

I sat one day, early last week, in kind of a 'down in the dumps' mood. One of those days when the kids were fighting, the dog chewed up a shoe, the baby wrote on a wall and threw cereal all over the floor kinda days. I wanted SO BADLY to pick up my smartphone and rant on social media.
And, on the days when it's all sunshine and bubbles, unicorns and glitter - I reach for my phone and I share on social media.

And then it came over me! Facebook has become my BFF. As a stay-at-home mom (as many of you know) you don't get a lot of "adult" conversation time. You can only call your husband so many times during the day, or your mom. You real 'human' BFF is probably home dealing with the same chaos as you so that's not always an option and so this is what happens: I tell my stories to my "friends".

Update Status: "I think these kids are trying to send me to a psychotherapist" 
Update Status: "The girls are being so sweet to each other day - I wish it could always be that way"
Update Status: "The baby peed on the floor - SMH" 

(I withhold more crazy status reports in fear of grossing people out :) )

But here's what I realized, social media as a whole is a 2-sided coin. One one side, you have this world of ambiguous connections. The land of the "like" where you throw out a small part of the conversation you wish you were having in length and hope it gets received, discussed and validated. It leaves you feeling a little empty and desperate.

BUT, on the other side - there are amazing connections to be made. My most recent "status" I shared about a personal fasting journey I am embarking on created an out pour of support that touched my heart. The personal messages from people I talk to often and those I talk to rarely was overwhelming. And it led to the TRUTH that exist everywhere when you look for it: God will use ANYTHING for good. And ANYTHING can be used in the complete opposite way when it is without Him.

At the end of the day. life is about RELATIONSHIPS. How you build them can differ across the board, but connecting on a personal level should never be discarded. We may live in a world where the 'private message' has replaced the 'snail mail' letter - but it's still the reaching out with INTENT that means the most.